For decades, women have heard the same instructions. Be this. Wear that. Eat less. Today, we like to think we’ve moved past it. But have we really, or are we just trapped in the performance of vanishing? « That’s not very ladylike » « You’d be prettier if you acted more feminine. » « That’s not attractive on a girl. » … Continue reading The Performance of Vanishing: Hollywood’s New Thin Obsession